Grown Children

For those married crossdressor with children - what do the children say, do, or feel when they knew about your crossdressing or have seen you in drag? Do you keep cd'ing a secret from your children instead? If your children know about you do they also want to be crossdressors? Or would you not want your children to crossdress? source

You might want to search some of the newer books written for people with Asperger's, a condition that is essentially defined by poor social skills. I haven't read them myself but I know that there are some recommended by people with the condition and if it can help in Asperger's, it's bound to help people who have less severe versions of social cluelessness. Also, I think it's rude to assume that the OP is not a "good guy" because he says he has trouble convincing people that he is. Lots of people with poor social skills are not creepy but appear that way because they don't know how to follow social rules. This does not mean they have no moral worth or may not be doing many good deeds. source

Wow, freebiemom, that took a lot of nerve for the wedding director to decide what would and wouldn't upset YOUR son! Did she know you guys ahead of time to have something to base that fear upon? source

Small children don't need to wear tuxes and gowns--they just look silly! Dress them in "party" or "church" clothes for the formal evenings. And yes, they are welcome in the dining room ANY evening! source

Just meet a few kids, or rememember your own childhood and the kids you played with. I'm beginning to suspect that this crowd are not actually human. source