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I just woke up to all the red flags and after consulting my fellow eNotalone members from my previous thread, I found out that my boyfriend is possessive. Since then, I have spoken to my boyfriend how I feel, and since then I only talk to him once a day...
Started by BeezKneez on
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by 4 people.
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I'm not sure how it appears that I have trust issues, which I have had before but I got over, but please... .
More importantly, you seem to have trust issues as well as this matter of him being possessive .
I don't think anyone here can answer that for you .
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I'm not sure how many of you read my story (it's long), but in a nutshell, I was with my previous girl (don't like saying ex) for 2 years. She was my first love, I was her first love. We BU end of September. NC started Dec 22, and still going.
So how ...
Started by lmasterz on
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by 4 people.
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Let them wonder what you are....
I'm about 3 weeks NC, and it doesn't feel like it's getting much better, but it's better than being rejected or told that we shouldn't be talking .
Keep doing those things to keep you busy.
It sounds like you are doing well.
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Since enotalone was so helpful during my breakup recovery I thought posing this question might yield some useful responses.
So my most recent breakup was with a 22 year old with BPD traits (read about it in my other posts). In short, she was psycho (hence...
Started by psycho magnet on
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by 9 people.
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They 'need' you and....
I think you like the younger, vulnerable type because you can control them more than someone that is more your age and 'normal' .
Doomed would be a harsh way to put it...you're admittedly making the choices and know the differences .
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A short while ago I posted about having to let my best friend go from my life, because my love for her was so strong, but it was unrequited. However I have this raging battle going inside me about my decision. I feel like in the long run I will be a better...
Started by stonecutters93 on
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by 8 people.
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1) Did I do.
I'm here now to ask the people of enotalone for advice.
For me, but that was long ago.
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So I wrote on enotalone a week or so ago about my co-worker ex and all the craziness dealing with him.
Well anyways, after a lot of drama happened at work, him and I are on speaking terms again. Not Best Friends Forever speaking terms, but at least civil...
Started by OuchMyBrain on
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by 6 people.
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Forget about it --- getting them back doesn't ....
Unfortunately, the more you focus on them, the more "valuable" you make them .
You meant them when you wrote them --- you just don't want him to have them anymore .
A letter is like a gift -- no take backs .
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Hi eNotAlone,
I've hit a point in my relationship where I need some advise, and thought this would be the great place to start,
I've been in a relationship for almost a year now,
and I feel suffocated in this relationship,
I'm not allowed to go out with...
Started by BeezKneez on
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by 10 people.
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He will probably threaten to hurt himself again or even suicide if you leave him... .
You need to get out now.
It's good that you're seeking advice now and not just excusing everything he's doing .
This is textbook controlling and borderline abusive behavior.
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I've been following enotalone for a long time, but never much of a poster. But I've been having a rambling of thoughts and I think only you guys can help!
I think this question is mainly directed to those in LDR that are working towards a move - especially...
Started by ~taintedlove on
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by 2 people.
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I'm under 8 months out from moving and while I don't second guess our decision because it IS the best decision for our lives as a family, you're obviously ... .
It's normal.
I feel kind of like a celebrity when I'm reading a thread and I'm mentioned, haha .
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I am a really optimistic person, I love being alive, I feel very lucky to be who I am.
Yet, I feel physically broken after being subjected to both verbal and physical violence for about 20+ years growing up. I am honestly consumed by thoughts of hatred...
Started by meoww on
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by 3 people.
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This inevitably leads....
I present myself as very confident and sharp, but as people get to know me they realize there is something really sad and screwed up about me .
I ask this because people often wonder why I am so unhappy when I should be doing fine .
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I was seeing this woman up to about 4 months. She introduced me to her 2 teenage boys and they are good lads, then a little later a visit up the line to meet her 2 daughters. All went well.
For me it was great, she lived close to my mum, who is quite ...
Started by marconi68 on
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by 2 people.
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Hello,
Here are a few aspects to help you make a decision .
I have had no contact with the ex gf and dont want to .
Last contact was about 2 weeks ago with the daughter .
I meant to say the relationship ended about 4 months ago, lasted just over a year .
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As the subject title reads, I have lost the will to live even though I do not want to die. I am typing this post on this message board in a final plea for help. I have lost everything and I continue to lose everything while there is nothing but gloom ...
Started by ErasedCitizen on
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by 6 people.
Answer Snippets (Read the full thread at enotalone):
Go....
Are you taking medication? If not you should be.
It also seems you have severe depression.
Dear, I just want you to know that as much as we pray to God to end our suffering, only we have the power inside to do the actions needed to accomplish this .
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