Offender

Yes, I would be upset because he could talk to me or his family if he needed someone to communicate with. We actually had this issue come up when his ex girlfriend wrote him. He told me right away and evens sent me the letter, but I was still very upset with the situation. We have an agreement I don't talked guys other then family, and he doesn't talk to other females that aren't family. I just believe that really whatever he needs he should get it from his family or me because we're the ones that have his best interest at heart. We do everything in our power to make his time as comfortable as possible. We write on a daily basis, and I try to visit him once a week. I would feel disrespected to know some other female was writing my man. source

I'm glade you where able to locate your information from the 800 number. I'm guessing, since you only had to enter one zero before the number your old man hasn't been in too long at all. source

I just went by ZIP code and apparently i have a few near me in the general area but not that close. They were mostly going after kids and I have no kids so I'm not worried. source

Well its alright to be friendly with him but just be VERY careful. Keep some distance and always have your phone on you ready to dial 911 if he tries to kidnap you and rape you or something. source

The comments on that site make a pretty convincing argument for why these lists are a bad idea. Someone only has to see you taking a piss in public and report you and you're on the list. source