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Would You Date A Married Woman? - Bisexual / Bicurious Chat
Hello!
I have often heard that single bisexuals and lesbians are difficult to find if you are married, but I was wondering what is the truth of the situation.
How many bisexuals/lesbians will get involved in with a woman who is married?
And to make it more interesting, I added some more options to the poll so we also get to find out how many married bisexuals would date other married bisexuals, and how many would like to involve the husband.
There are three questions, just tick one selection in each.
When I say relationship, I mean sexual as well as emotional, so including the husband does mean that you will have some form of sexual contact with him.
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I'm not married yet, but I'm engaged.
I would date another married/commited woman, but only on the condition that her husband knew about it (I don't believe in cheating and I wouldn't be the "other" partner.)
I wouldn't want her husband or mine involved.
If she was single I *might* get my guy involved but only if she was ok with it.
Its in no way a requirement.
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I'm in agreement with dreamer.
I'm engaged (so not single, or married), I would date a married woman if the husband was ok with it and my fiance was ok, no threesomes though.
Fed on a media diet of really bad news, we live in a perpetual state of repressed panic.
We are paralyzed by bad knowledge, from which the only escape is playing dumb.
Ignorance becomes empowering because it enables people to live.
Stupidity becomes proactive, a political statement.
Our collective norm.
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I also agree with Dreamer
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I am single and I would rather not date a married woman.
If I decided to date a married woman, her husband would have to be okay with it and threesomes (or any other involvement of her husband) would not be okay.
I would expect her to be at least partially out as I don't intend to hide my relationship.
And I would expect some form of commitment, I would hate to be a friend with benefits or an affair.
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I also agree with dreamer.
I am single at the moment but if I weren't I would agree with satehen Quote: :
Quote: I'm in agreement with dreamer.
I'm engaged (so not single, or married), I would date a married woman if the husband was ok with it and my fiance was ok, no threesomes though.
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I'm single - haha, I read the last question wrong, thought it said 'if you were married', lol failure.
- and I would not mind dating a married woman, assuming that her husband was aware, as I don't believe in cheating.
As far as her/my husband being involved, it would depend on a lot of things like if I was attracted to him as well, if we got along, etc.
It would not be a requirement by any stretch of the imagination, but I'm open-minded enough that it could always be an option.
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I wouldn't mind dating a married woman...
And like many have already said, the husbands would have to know about our relationship.
As far as sexual relations with the husband and my husband...
I wouldn't want that, but I would love to be able to have all of us hang out.
That is of course since I have someone particular in mind (a good friend of mine).
LOL. But I wouldn't expecct the time that she and I had together to be completely seperate of everybody else.
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I have dated married and attached people, had group sex.
I will go with how I feel,
if I like an attached person I would be open to dating them, if I liked their partner too all the better
Just don't give me that crap about if I have a threesome with you I have to do this with them and not that and I cant have feelings for them gah I'm not a sex robot, you cant pre-program me.
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I'm single and completely monogamous, and I would only consider the same for my partner.
I want to be someone's one and only -- not their co-#1 or #2.
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I don't think I could do it.
Even if her husband knew, I think I'd feel too weird about it, but that's just me.
I totally see how you could date a married woman if her husband/partner knew but....hmm, I'd feel too odd.
Plus, I'd always feel like second best - just to add to insecurities haha.
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I have a g/f who is single...technically speaking I'm married but only on paper...so my g/f..is having a relationship with a married woman...lol!!
I prefer to be with single women less complication that way.
Luv
Froggy
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I am not married yet but in a serious relationship...now I would not date a married woman, but I would want a single woman to join my boyfriend and I.
Not only for a one night threesome, but to invite her into our relationship.
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I am completely monogamous.
I have huge issues with those who cheat on their husbands/wives, because as a child that pretty much traumatized me from my parent's divorce and since have had issues with men and the fear of infidelity.
Therefore, I have always had a negative view for those on the other side...
Even if they are not the instigators of the affair/relationship.
If they have any conscious brain at all, they should realize what potential damage and strife can result from their participation....
As you can tell, I have a lot of anger issues with the woman who knowingly ruining my parent's marriage with her affair with my father.
Not to mention him...
But I won't get into that.
My point is, I could never break apart a family or cause strife, be it going with a man OR a woman if they were married.
That's my rant and 2 cents, and didn't mean to offend anybody if you can/do swing into a married person's life.
If it's agreed upon by all parties, then I guess it may be a little different.
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Great poll Smudge.
Thanks for posting it!
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I'm married and my husband knows everything that goes through my head, or practically.
As long as there is full disclosure for all parties involved, I see no problem with being with another married woman.
I also wouldn't mind having social engagement with the husbands.
It'd be nice if we could all be friend.
(I'm dreaming, aren't I.)
My preference would be to keep intimate encounters separate though.
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I am a single woman, but would have a relationship with a married woman aslong as her husband knew..
Depending on if I was attracted to her husband, I might have a 3some, but would like seperate time with the woman
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Well I'd be a little young to date a married woman but...
I am a strong believer in loyalty but...
If I was married I would probably stay loyal but if my husband was open enough I might mention it.
And I dunno if I would date a married woman, I think her partner would have to be wicked okay with it but still...
I'm selfish and I don't like sharing
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I don't think I could date a married woman because I might eventually want a real relationship with her and it won't be possible because she wants to stay with her husband.
I want her all to myself.
I am having a hard time deciding if I want to start something with this chick who has two daughters.
I'm only 21 and I don't think I can handle kids right now.
It's so hard for me to find single girls that don't have any attachments.
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