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LEGAL 10 Legal Ways to Punish a Cheater - TimeBomb 2000
Http://www.cnn.com/2009/LIVING/perso...ays/index.html
10 legal ways to punish a cheater
If your ex cheated on you, there are legal ways to get even
Do whatever it takes to look your best, post pix on Facebook with male friend
If his mom or sister ask about breakup, tell them he cheated on you
Ignore all social media contact from him.
But post a song about his cheating ways
updated 39 minutes agoNext Article in Living »
By Jessica Wakeman
(The Frisky) -- You don't have to be Jennifer Aniston to think that the four women who Krazy-Glued a cheater's penis to his stomach were way harsh and beyond psycho.
If your ex's loved ones ask why you broke up, it's OK to admit he cheated on you, writer says.
But in our less scrupulous/mature moments, many of us want to punish a particularly nasty ex, especially if he was a cheater.
Ladies, let's keep it legal (and Krazy Glue-free), OK?
Here are 10 ideas:
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Email his crappiest crap e-mail to Jezebel.com's Crap E-mail From A Dude and when they publish it, discreetly post the link as your GChat away message.
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Call up your hottest platonic male friend, grab your digital camera and go do something adorable together.
Now it's time to create a Facebook photo album full of pics of you looking smiley.
(Bonus points if your ex was slightly paranoid that this guy had a thing for you).
The Frisky: Possible to remain friends with an ex?
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Permanently adopt that comfy sweatshirt he left at your place.
Especially if he's the one who caused the breakup, he probably doesn't have the cojones to ask for it back now.
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Gain that extra 10 lbs that fills you out nicely, like Joan Holloway on "Mad Men"...
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...or lose that extra 10 lbs so you can fit into your sexy jeans again.
Either way, this also requires a Facebook photo album.
The Frisky: How Joan Holloway gives me confidence
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You might hear from his mom, sisters, or other family members you were close to after the breakup, especially if you dated for a long time.
Airing too much of your dirty laundry to them will make you look like a psycho.
But if he did cheat on you (and you didn't cheat back), it couldn't hurt to mention how his bad behavior led to the split.
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Dude sure as hell didn't tell them the truth about why you broke up!
And any mom or sister worth her salt will tear your ex a new one when they learn that's why he lost a great girl like you.
The Frisky: Continue relationships with an ex's loved ones?
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Ignore every single text, Tweet, Facebook poke and email from here on out.
But kept posting stuff on your social networking sites on the regular.
8.
If you're a songwriter or a poet, well, you know what to do.
The creep who caused Ani Di Franco's song "Untouchable Face" probably hasn't forgotten what he did.
9.
Penning aggressive-aggressive emails (as opposed to passive-aggressive ones) is always therapeutic.
The Frisky: Passive aggressive notes Web site
10.
Spend a few months feeling down.
Indulge in some therapy.
Do some fun things single women do.
Work extra-hard at your job and get a promotion.
Go take a trip or buy some new clothes.
Whenever you're ready, go meet a new guy.
Fall in love. Have tons of great sex.
Laugh a lot. Talk about baby names and where you want your honeymoon to be.
The next time you run into your ex, mention all the great things that have happened in your life since you broke up ...
Or just smile.
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I sent my ex a box of cat poop.
No, it wasn't terribly mature but it made me feel a lot better.
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Why would any woman with an ounce of self respect lower herself to this level?
This is stupid, childish and could back-fire something serious if brought before the courts in divorce preceedings.
If someone doesn't love you then why on earth would you want that person in your life let alone humiliate them or make them feel guilty?
They'll have to answer for their actions to a far more superior being than facebook, google or yahoo.
I just don't get it.
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My revenge is living well...
and i am living very well indeed.
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Quote: : my revenge is living well...
and i am living very well indeed.
Truly the best revenge!
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Seems a little bias to me.
What you think men are the only cheaters?
My ex-wife slept with 4 of my fellow firefighters.
I would go into burning buildings with these guys and I trusted them with my life.
Guess I couldnt trust them with my wife.
I didnt do any of those things.
Took a job on the other side of the state, pulled stakes and started a new life.
Three months later the divorce was final and I havent talked to her since.
She ended up marrying one of them and had a kid with him.
I just found out about a year ago that she recently divorced the guy and then got busted for possession of meth a few months later.
She lost custody of her kid and I guess her life is completely in the toilet.
So dont make this a ALL MEN ARE CHEATERS thread.
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Quote: : my revenge is living well...
and i am living very well indeed.
I agree! And that is exactly what I am doing.
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Quote: : So dont make this a ALL MEN ARE CHEATERS thread.
I would never do that!
All men are not cheaters, and there are women cheaters too.
Cheaters are cheaters, no matter if they are male or female, and they usually get just what they deserve, in the end.
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Quote: : I would never do that!
All men are not cheaters, and there are women cheaters too.
Cheaters are cheaters, no matter if they are male or female, and they usually get just what they deserve, in the end.
I know. I'm just sayin...
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First off, All men are not cheaters
Second, if I DID cheat on someone why would I care about what they post on the web..
Lol
Sorry.. but I would look at any attempt to make me feel jealous as pathetic.
I would probably think "Thank God I didn't marry that one"
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What if it's the other way around?
ETA: Let me make a serious proclamation here for those men or women who want to settle the score.
There are many people out there both of both sexes that if some stunt was pulled on them, would made it the last day on earth for the trickster.
Best to just walk away.
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Nice behavior. I would never drop to this level.
The best thing is to move on.
To behave in this way shows an unstable person.
Myself. I cried every night for a few months.
Then one day it stopped.
Acting with revenge only prolongs the anger and feeds it.
It also might show why the other person left in the first place.
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Just get over it and move on Gee
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I am astounded that a website calling itself "Christian" would allow people who list themselves as MARRIED to shop for extra marital affairs on their website!
But then again they cater to gays and lesbians too so Christian means next to nothing as far as the website itself is concerned.
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Seeking revenge for such a thing just means you have allowed the other person to continue to occupy your thoughts.
Better to erase them and move on.
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For every hot woman walking the street, there's at least one guy who's glad that bitch is out of his life forever!
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Quote: : For every hot woman walking the street, there's at least one guy who's glad that bitch is out of his life forever!
Oh no Green I bet you two bucks FL will be here in a heartbeat.
You shouldn't otta said that.
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After 16 1/2 years of marriage I found my hubby was having an affair- I was blindsided.
It took every bit of energy I had to pick myself and move forward for my boys' sake.
Now that I have the energy (a year later)- I have realized I'm not wasting it on him .
. . his loss! I was a great wife, mother, etc.
I have a love worth giving and receiving- if he doesn't see that- it is his loss!
It still breaks my heart that he could have done it - our boys never deserved the pain.
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You could always put a gun to the back of your head and blow your face and brains all over them.
Think about having to live with that for the est of their lives.
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Revenge is just plain stupid.
If some loser man/woman cheats then why the hell would you waste even a minute of your life trying to impress that unworthy person?
I have never understood this behavior.
If a relationship is bad, take the long walk and don't look back.
It is pointless to stick pins in someone who obviously has no respect for you in the first place.
Face up to the fact that they didn't care enough about you to NOT cheat and probably will have no more then fleeting regrets that they lost you.
Keep your respect, stand tall and walk on.
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My daughter is going through a divorce.
The AXXhole walk out on her 2 weeks before their son was born.
Less than year after they were married.
Then he had the nerve to begin to blame her for the break-up via emails etc.
Turned out he was seeing another woman.
She was blind-sided but all emails from him justifying his behavior were posted online to Facebook.
Childish? Perhaps but it was a good outlet for her within the first week of her coming home with the baby.
Within a couple of weeks she blocked all communication with him and has moved on with her life as a new single parent.
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Im so sorry Britches.
It is tough. My ex was fooling around for a year before I found out.
Looked at some of his charges.
One to a motel when he was supposed to be visiting his mom in another town.
I called her and she said, he never arrived and was not scheduled to visit her.
Funny thing was all my coworkers knew he was doing his.
They were afraid to hurt me and said nothing.
There is nothing that makes one feel so filthy than getting cheated on.
And given an STD to boot.
He swore he was with no one else when I was hospitalized due to this.
My doc looked at him and laughed.
He said she was with no one else but you..you jerk.
I did not get even.
I got back out in life and took a stained glass class with my daughter.
It really helped.
Somehow getting creative helps.
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It's sad to read the stories some of you have about cheating spouses.
I'm sorry to hear about it.
I don't see how any real man could spend many years with a woman, taking the best years of her life and then just dump her.
Anyone that would do that, IMHO, is lower than a snails belly.
One of my sons and his baby boy were abandoned by his wife and the baby's mother who met some creep on the internet.
That little boy wasn't cared for by her as an infant and it has had a negative impact on him and his development.
Since his wife left, my son has remarried (to a wonderful girl with two little girls).
And, just a couple of months ago they had their fourth child, a beautiful little girl.
The first wife had her little fling and now she is alone and about 100 lbs.
Fatter.
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Or you could simply forgive them and pray for them.
You might even feel better inside if you really mean it...
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Well, I'm not going to pray for a cheater.
Let God forgive him...I won't.
The point of most of those exercises is to show everyone that the cheating piece of shit did not defeat you.
You are still alive, and are going to have a very nice life, thank you very much.
Remember that many cheaters try to blame their bad behavior on others....
Such as you weren't pretty enough, sexy enough, or even that you should be lucky they spent any time on you at all, because nobody else is going to want you.
Cheating is not just a mild blow to your ego.
Try finding out that your cheater gave you an STD, for instance.
Or that everyone else you knew also knew about the cheating, but couldn't be a REAL friend and tell you about it (meaning that they also endangered your life and health).
Cheaters come in both sexes, but have one thing in common: they're assholes, which is not exclusive to gender.
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Quote: : Seeking revenge for such a thing just means you have allowed the other person to continue to occupy your thoughts.
Better to erase them and move on.
Absolutely!
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I'm singin' the fireman blues
I trusted my buddies with my life.
But I couldnt trust them with my wife.
I'm singin' the fireman blues!
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They need to keep their hoses rolled up.
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Quote: : loop They need to keep their hoses rolled up.
That was bad, FL!!
Funny, but BAD!
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