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I am 70 and have met and love a young woman of 19. She loves me as...
I am 70 and have met and love a young woman of 19.
She loves me as well.
We want to marry.
This is no joke we are serious.
Do you think we are doing the right thing?
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Have you two actually met face to face or is your relationship online so far?
I'm not being mean or nosy, just curious.
Sometimes online relationships can seem so wonderful and beautiful and we think the one we have fallen in Love with is as close to perfect as anyone on this earth can be.
Then you meet and it's still wonderful for a while.
They tell you they Love you and everything else they know you want to hear and then out of the blue they drop you like a hot potato and you are left wondering what happened?
I've been there and had that done to me a couple of times.
People can be whatever they want online and on the phone.
Actions speak much louder than words.
I wish you the best but please be careful.
I don't want to see you get hurt even though I don't know you.
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Don;t rob the cradle!
You nor giving my generation a chance...
I will be disappointed when i am the age to really care...
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I don't think that age is something that should stop a relationship.
If you are going to marry her you must understand that she will do a lot of growing and changing in the coming years, I am only 21 but a completely different person than I was when I was 19.
You also must be willing to deal with the criticism you are likely to receive from the people that surround you both.
If you are willing to deal with a unique set of challenges through the course of your marriage then you deserve the happiness you were lucky enough to find.
Best Wishes!
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Not trying to be rude.
But you are cheating that 19 year old out of life.
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It depends upon so much!
How is your health at the moment?
I married a man much older than me and our marriage did last for 10 years.
He did not tell me that he has a drinking problem.
He beat me when he was drinking and called me horrible names but stupid me stuck with him because I loved him and we had two boys together.
He died due to his drinking after he ended up having a major operation on his pancreas.
When he wasn't drinking he was the best husband a woman could ask for.
Have you been straight forward with this girl about everything?
Are you compatible with her likes and is she compatible with your likes?
Age does not play a major part of love or marriage if you can be opened and totally honest with each other becfore you get married.
Trust and respect for each other is very important.
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Why did you choose to make this question?this means that you are afraid,that you are not sure?,or that you are not doing the right thing??if so,why??
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They are no way in Hell a young woman of 19 can love an old man of 70.
I am sorry I don't believe this is ever real.
..Unless she is homely and cant get a young man that very well my be the case then I will buy it.
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I find it hard to believe a 19 year old would want anything from a 70 year old except his money
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Well, I've been reading the various comments.
Gotta ask you Thinker - are you simply seeking an approval rating, or bragging?
Not to sound like a dick, but to just be blunt - would you let the opinions of the people on here influence your ultimate decision?
If not, why bother seeking them, if only to make yourself more comfortable with the idea.
And if you need the comfort of approval, is this really something you should be doing?
You keep mentoning the lord - but really - that sounds like a religious copout.
If you had a 19 year old daughter, how would you REALLY feel about her marrying a 70 year old?
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Um... the first thought that comes to mind is Suga-Daddy.
That may not be the case, and if it's not please don't take offense.
The bottom line is probably the best answer - if it makes you both happy, God bless.
Gotta ask though - how does the gal's parents (assuming they are still in the picture) feel about the arrangement?
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