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as a straight male how do you feel that a guy might get attracted to you by mistake - Crossdressers.com
When you dress as a woman?
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I guess I'd feel sorry for him, having such bad eye sight.
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Hopefully an honest mistake!
ChanDelle
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I don't know what planet I'd need to be on for THAT to happen.
But if it did, I'd be very flattered and thank him, but then I'd have to tell him have to tell him that I'm married to a wonderful GG!
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TBH, I would feel flattered.
It would be one more validation of the woman within.
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So has anyone gotten scared b4?
After the guy finds a sign or two that your not a real woman?
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It ain't gonna happen, but if it did I would feel flattered.
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I try not to think of myself as male...
It goes with the territory?
Like other women, you have to get used to gently brushing people off..
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I'm very secure in my sexuality.
When I dress, I'm not trying to draw attention from men.
I feel much more comfortable interacting with women.
I've been hit on a few times by guys though.
When it happens, my lifted brow and sardonic smile usually clues them in to my actual gender without me resorting to my "manly" voice.
That said, I've never really been scared.
I've found that when a guy realizes his mistake, it is usually him that is more frightened than me - mostly of his reaction, I guess.
Me, I laugh it off - passing is what I'm trying to do, after all.
He has to live with himself and explain away any reactions his body may have had to visual cues and his perceived chances with me.
Kathi
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Like Nicky said and also you have to see it as some sort of compliment whatever youre inclination.
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It'd definitely be a comliment if it ever happened!
I carry dog treats for their guide dogs, just in case it does...
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Certainly, I'd be flattered.
But I'm simply not at all attracted to men, so I guess it would be his problem, not mine (I hope!).
But really, when I dress, I try my best to look like an attractive lady.
If I'm successful at it, I certainly hope that men would find me attractive.
But that is not at all my reason for dressing.
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It happened to me the second time ever I went out in public...but he knew I was a guy.
I still took it as a compliment.
When I was talking to him I said that I was new to going out dressed and trying things out.
Wrong thing to say!
Debbie
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No problem. I'd feel flattered I'm straight but I have several gay and bi friends, plus being part of the TG community, I periodically go to gay bars so on the off chance that I'm attractive to a gay guy (or even being hit on) is not something that bothers me at all.
I just politely decline and tell them that I'm happily married and monogamous ....
Although, in my case it's not been men that have ever hit on me ...
Other T-girls on the other hand ....
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See the thread:
http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/...d.php?t=107273
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I deliberately dress so as not to pass as a female.
It eliminates a lot of confusion, if I am not careful I am so attractive that I am a magnet for any male within several hundred yards.
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When I was a young teenager (13) and my hair was rather long, I had a slightly older (14) guy ask me out at a new school.
(I did look why more fem then, than I do now).
I said politely and quietly "Sorry I am a guy".
He looked startled and walked away.
Years later I looked back on this event when, I felt the need to dress and realized, CDing and being gay can be mutually exclusive.
I have not been out dressed ever, so this has never occured since.
I do believe that I would respond that I was married and let it go, while my heart would be pounding with joy at the thought of passing.
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I'd be flattered and then I would let him know about me and my wonderful wife.
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There are plenty of men (a few on this site) for whom it would be no 'mistake'..
You just have to learn (like women do) how to live with unwanted attention?
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Yeah, I don't get it, I thought some of you gals might not only like the attention, you might want to take it a little further.
Me? I don't want no guy snffing around me, unless he's rich or maybe real cute.
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I've had guys hit on me before as a male so if guys hit on me as a female I guess that's OK, but then if he's looking at me as a female and then I tell him "sorry I'm married to a female then I guess that makes me a lesbian....so I guess he wouldn't think that was to cool...He might say to me "you need a real man to show you a good time"...
So if I took him up on that then that would mean we were really two men and that means we're gay...and if he's striaght and is really doing a guy then is he closet gay bi or is this just to whacked out!!!!
LOL....
But seriously...just thing of all the possibilities here....
But I'd probably think he was some pervert hitting on a CDer....
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Quote: : Carter He's drunk or on drugs.
Ah-h-h- Joy baby how could a big ole handsome guy NOT be attracted to that dogface...
You could even tongue 'em YUK!
Your NY girl
Megan
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